Cici, if no one in your circle has told you, I will.
Let it go sis.
You can’t make a man be a father. You can’t make him show up and show out in the name of fatherhood.
You can’t make him stop dropping your son off at Grandma’s.
You can’t make Future stop missing scheduled visits.
You can’t make Future do what you want. He’s famous too. And rich. He does drugs and makes trap music. Who did you think you were having a baby with? Russell Wilson?
Speaking of Russell Wilson, you have him in real life.
Women everywhere have no clue what the “Russell Wilson Prayer” says but unanimously know they want it.
Ciara, why are you giving any energy to Future?
Stop going to court to try to make that man act right. If it isn’t in his heart to be a dad, let it go. Or is it that he isn’t being the dad that you expect? How much do you really expect from Future? Doesn’t he have two more babies on the way?
Cici, focus less on trying to make Future act right and spend more time working on an album. Or something.
Ummm Im gonna agree to disagree ..
I love u but I think and this is from someone who did the latter that if she let him slide he inevitably thinks everyone else should too… Regardless of who he is or what he does he is financially responsible unless he gives up parental rights!! Her keeping her foot on his neck is a tragedy because he’s a grown ass man … And he’s having people make excuses for him ….AS a society we need to hold our men up and raise them up to do better… I wish I would have done that to my kid’s father and maybe things would have been different..
What an inflammatory, subjective article. If a man has no desire to see his son, what is wrong with rearranging the visitation so she no longer has to fly to the other side of the country? Advocating for a stable more balanced life for a child is not being bitter. It’s being responsible.
No.
Delete this.
This article is whack AF. How you gonna tell a woman to Accept that man’s bs? He was all up in her face when her body was a party… now the party over he don’t wanna clean up. Yes he has a step-in father which is a blessing but that doesn’t release Future from his responsibilities. That man has multiple children with multiple women. These other women probably don’t have the money to fight that man in court. Ciara is not only fighting for her child but for the other he created. This is why our black men are jacked up now. Hold him accountable hold him responsible.
If you wanted a responsible man, you should have picked one from the jump. Future has ALWAYS been like this. That didn’t stop her from giving him a kid. Why is she upset now? She knew what he was.
“When someone shows you who they really are, believe them”
– Maya Angelou
Definitely a whack article. If he doesn’t want to do right he needs to relinquish his parental rights. Ciara should go through the court for ALL OF THIS so when he comes back with some BS excuses, the court will have everything documented. It’s time that people are held accountable. Especially men trying repopulate the entire community by themselves.
I have a better idea: STOP messing with black men like Future, giving him kids, then moaning and belly-aching when he doesn’t do right. If Ciara had picked a Russell Wilson type out of the gate she would t be in the predicament she’s in now. I know that’s asking a lot to leave Young Pyrex, Lil Half Dead and Gloc Busta along, because they’re so Gangsta and are dripping with swag juice, but if you all do that, you’ll have better lives in general and won’t be on forums like these angry and bitter about men you picked who were no good, knowing they weren’t good when you picked them in the first place. #themoreyouknow
Ladies, y’all can say what you want but she’s right. He’s gonna do him regardless. Ciara already won the lottery once. She should take that jackpot and focus on what you *can* control.
What you’re saying is logical and makes too much sense. They ain’t trying to hear you bro.
This article is trash.
She still wants Future, at the end of the day.