I don’t get why men are attacked as transphobes when they state they aren’t attracted to transwomen.
I don’t want to debate if transwomen are women. People are who they say they are.
Being a woman isn’t some one size fits all “thing”. We are different.
Just like some women are born with or without big boobs, we now have women who were born with or without a penis. It’s just one more characteristic to or not to be attracted to.
If you are cool with it, awesome.
If women who were born with penises are not your thing, that is okay too.
I don’t get why people get judged for having preferences.
There are a ton of men who won’t date women based on color and size. If a man can be unattracted to me because I am black, then why should transwomen be any different?
I have a problem when someone makes a general statement about, for example, not dating an entire demographic of women because *insert ignorance here* but if you can state your preference without putting down an entire population of people, then have your preference and ignore the naysayers.
Don’t get me wrong, some of ya’ll are homophobic AF but that isn’t the majority.
Seriously, let’s stop trying to make men feel bad for having a preference.
It is okay to like what you like.