I knew this guy was a creep when I saw stories about him posted from women in multiple groups. Different women, same story.
Age: 43
Profession: Engineer, maybe
Location: Miami, FL/Atlanta
This guy is a dating app connoisseur. His most recent tryst led a woman to post “…I had no idea that I was involved with a serious manipulator, sexual deviant, nasty, reckless man who pulled the wool over my eyes.” She was with him a whole year, and she wasn’t the only one.
I’ve read 37 posts from different women who have confirmed the same thing: he’s unfaithful, he lies and he doesn’t use protection. For the record, I’m not calling him out for being a serial dater. Most people are nowadays. As adults, we have to be accountable for who we date, we have to do our homework. 37 women though? That’s gross. Men get upset when women date more than one guy at a time. This guy is a public infection waiting to happen.
I was, however, extremely bothered that so many women were sleeping with the same man without a condom. He’s so charming. He made me feel special. I thought I was the only one. These aren’t college aged women or teenagers saying this about him, it’s grown women. College graduates. One is a licensed therapist. All of these women are professionals in their field and despite having all the education in the world, still fell for this man’s tricks.
There is a lesson in this for everyone: everyone isn’t who they seem, wrap it up, get tested. While there are some great men in Atlanta somewhere, there are more guys like this one that women have to be conscious of and protect themselves from. Just because a man says the right things doesn’t mean he will do right by you. Make these men prove their worth and protect your body at all times. This is, after all, Atlanta.
You’ve been warned.
Wow
Sadly to admit I’ve had an encounter with him.
I kno someone who’s been seeing him I want to tell her about this but I don’t know if it’s current or really true so I don’t want to hurt her or make her upset for no reason but this is disturbing to kno
I am completely threw back with this one I meant him over 20 years ago he was living in Jacksonville at the time. Just as you ladies have said he strings you along and will do it for years If you let him. Oh Bitchass Negro!!!! I’m so glad I didn’t allow my twat to think for me!!!!
Please let her know. Two years of straight infidelity, and I was pregnant. Now embarrassed that he really was community dick. SMH.
@should’be Known Better, how long ago was this?
@shook were you a victim 2?
@should’be known better how long ago was that? Did he know u were pregnant?
Count me in!!🤦🏽♀️ I broke up with this man almost 2 years ago! While we were watching a moving on his phone a tinder notification popped up on the screen. He tried his best to convince me that it was a 3 year-old pop up. After further investigation I learned he’s a Tinder hoe in ever state his FAA job would assign him. He sleeps with ANY & Everybody 5 minutes of meeting if they agree.
Oh he absolutely met my flip side that morning and got the full Bronx chic curse out!
He suggested that we drive off so we can talk, and his neighbors wouldn’t be aware of the male whore amongst them. Kamali’s plan was for him & I to drive off to allow Time for his guest to exist the apartment.
We left but instead of talking he sat quietly and reeked of sex. A asked question and received no response. So I pulled my car over to the left side of the highway going towards GSU and told him to get the fuck out! And I pulled off! And drove straight back to Orlando. I’m not with the games & the BS and I told him that when we started dating 2 years early. I got suckered into his bullshit, making me feel extra special, opening doors, holding hairs open, and presenting small gifts. And playing with Coltrane. He’s too all for the games he plays! I told him that shit will back fire. I’m sorry I missed it 😏
Be safe & get test!?
@shouldveknownbetter how long ago was that? I met him on a dating app earlier this year. We dated until July/August time then he disappeared after saying his job was getting busy. He tried to get me to do some of the stuff the other ladies talked about and when I said no he stop calling as much. I wish I would’ve googled him and saved myself the time I wasted. He’s a player who will never settle down. Who ever ends up with him is getting used up community Dick!
I think you should let her know this nigga is not right putting your friends life in danger
He deleted his FB page that should tell you have true this is. He is exactly as described.
I know she’s going to want proof and without proof she may not believe it.
Well if she stays long enough it won’t be long before she has the proof she needs. If she watches his moves close enough she see that everything being said is true. All she has to do is google him. How long has she been dating him? Maybe suggest or ask her how much does she really know? Did she do any research? That’s how I would go about it.
She did and was told it’s a upset person he felt with who saying stuff. She won’t care about past stuff. If something is current she will care
How current are we talking? I say just leave her to figure it out on her own. He will show his true colors I can promise you that. Did he tell her they are exclusive? Or are they just dating that’s the difference to him. He will see other people if they aren’t exclusive.
@concerned Friend Is your friend still with him?
@ :-/ Last time I checked yes she is happily with him.
@shook where you seeing him and if yes when?
I’m shocked at the women who are responding. He told me he left women alone
Say what in the entire fuck! Adam4Adam spill the tea my friend. I knew it I knew it!
No he would never do that, he is a manipulator
Are you saying you’re with him Adam4Adam?
He likes men ladies.
@MC ur his friend and confirming that he is bi? Or gay? If he is why is he still sleeping with women with no protection
Well I am reading what Adam4Adam is saying about him but somethings now add up that I noticed back in 2011. It now makes alot of sense. When you pillow talk alot things get said that now make sense.
He’s sexually fluid
Are you saying he’s bi or gay? Do you have proof of that?
Do you? I’m sitting here mad my man is chasing kitty and ur asking for proof 🙄 Have some respect, a bitch is hurting right now and I need answers. Allofum. #DaFuq
Adam4Adam you need to stop playing now this is getting out of hand. You basically calling this man bisexual and that’s not cool. I agree with Concerned Friend you definitely need to provide proof of that. That is a bold statement you made. I’m not believing that shit.
I don’t owe u an explanation or proof. Are you asking these other women for proof or explanations? Go sit down and get tested with the rest of us sus 🙄 He’s busted and you still asking for proof. Women are so dumb
I’m dead!!!! This is too much!!! I went to doctors this week since finding this information on cheatland. I pray God has protected me. This man is sick and dangerous!!!
This is too much!!! WTF hope ur test come back clear. When did you encounter him? I was with him the end of 2018 thru feb. Something felt off and he wasn’t trying to commit even tho je said that’s what he was looking for.
Crazy, that’s how he controls women he will tell you he wants to date for marriage but he will not WILL NOT commit to you. He toys with women. It’s so sad but the weak will stay and continue to be played with until they realize he doesn’t mean them no good. All these women can’t be lying. Now there’s a man to 🤦🏽♀️ And he deleted his page off FB maybe this will be a wake up call for him. BUSTED
https://cheaterland.com/kamili-hitchmon-atlanta-georgia.html
https://cheaterland.com/kamili-hitchmon-atlanta-georgia.html
Crazy, that’s what he does he will string you along as long as you allow him without any commitment. He says he wants to date for marriage but that’s not factual he dates for entertainment purposes only. Short term companionships with multiple people. And now a man is saying he told him he was done with women 🤦🏽♀️.. he is so BUSTED but some will believe his lies
Ol boy look suspect in that pic. What kinda women he pulling though?
Aww sorry this going down like this Kam. You are a good dude and friend. Mara
Mara WTF what about the # of people this man has lied to. Who trusted him with there life!!!! That who you should feel sorry for. Ok he had multiple sex partners…no problem. However to be sexing all these people and not using protection. While lying to them all. Telling them they are the only person he is having sex with. Oh wait it’s their fault for trust this sorry mutha******? Get the f*** out of here. Girl he is not a good dude!!! A good dude wouldn’t treat people the way he has. He has a serious problem. Of course you wouldn’t see it. He is good at act sweet and sincere. He is full of himself. What’s done in the dark will be brought to the light!!! One has many warning before they are exposed and this mutha****** has been exposed. Carry on with you pity for someone who treat people as he as.
Excuse my grammatical errors. I’m just so pissed off at people defending this reckless behavior of Kamili….I’m sure you get my point.
MC Mara A good dude? Would a good dude use women that he knows like him and want to be with him? How about have unprotected Sex with multiple partners while lying and telling them they are the only one? It’s cool if he’s afraid of commitment as long as he tell the truth about it. Is a good dude addicted to porn and sending out nasty videos to anyone who will take it? Is a good dude a secretive liar? What makes him a good dude? He uses women and tosses them away and doesn’t care about the damage he causes to them. He’s a manipulative user who is possibly exposing people SEXUALLY transmitted diseases. More than likely he will not stop because he probably doesn’t see anything Wong with his behavior. He probably reads this stuff and thinks he’s the victim or laughs about it while texting his next victim.
@mara so you being his friend you’re basically confirming that he’s gay. So do you think it’s ok that he leads women to believe that his interest is in them? He tells them that he is not gay. So he is lying to them. He seems confuses or in denial of his true interest. But like others have said he has been exposed.
If a woman is sleeping with a man without a condom based off what he tells you, you are dumb. I saw the game he was playing in 2011 and found another man. We remained friends. Back then I tried him asking him for a threesome with another man because he was manly on min and flamboyant the next suspect. What straight man is game for that really? We remained cool and I found a man. Period.
@MC you are so right with what you’re saying he did the same with me as well. Which leads me to believe that he has interest in men. Definitely flamboyant which was so confusing for me I couldn’t understand. But I do now.
@makes sense & MC He asked for a threesome with a man and you?
@confused yes on numerous occasions it came up.
No I asked for one because the way he acted was fucking suspect. If he was down for it he is fucking gay not bi. I left that shit alone. I started dating someone else and told his ass straight up I found a new man and moved on from the bs.
@confused he definitely plays the victim! It’s everyone else’s fault and not his.
I don’t care what a man profession is how much money he makes no matter what he tells you that you the only one. Protect yourself. If the words not being backed up actions a man doesn’t like you like that period. I fault him and the women participating for be naive. Yes we still cool get tested and pray. You know better next time a dude is running game.
If he didn’t give you a ring to make you his wife say I do or fiance no man likes or loves you like that period Sis. #free game
Ain’t no penius worth dying for period.
I am going keep it100 Walmart, CVS sells condoms..As a woman you can buy condoms as well. Just a thought if doesn’t where a condom don’t f!&k him.He didn’t put a gun to your head either. The bs works both ways we all grown. Peep the red flags and move accordingly in 2019.
@MC ur right but he also sounds like a big liar and like he has sexual addiction. People like that are reckless. Since ur friends wit him have u talked to him about how his behavior is careless? There’s a lot of women saying the same thing and they can’t all be lying on him. He sounds confused and like he needs help. He going around causing a lot of emotional damage to women. Karma has a long memory and it seems like his messed up behavior is catching up to him. If he is really ur friend u should talk to him and encourage him to get help
That means half the dudes out here need help. At the end of day everybody is grown out here dating men lie women lie. If you get HiV/ AIDs because you’re too trusting and naive you have look at what part you play. If it didn’t workout keep it moving. I don’t need to talk to KAM pretty sure he is reading these comments..What is crazy somebody had to take it to this extreme when they could’ve text him and went off.
Kam must have gotten his shit dipped in gold men and women going back and forth on these comments. Sips Tea
Kamili if ur reading these messages I wanna encourage u to get help. Ur hurting alotta women. U don’t have to lie to kick it. U can tell them u don’t want a relationship and looking to have a lil fun.alotta females will go with it. Stop using these ladies and lying to them. It’s not the move u wanna keep making. Look at what’s happening now. Ur name is mudd out in the net. U gonna end up with hiv or wit some crazy female who try to hurt u because u played wit her. Stop lying, stop having sex raw, stop stringing women along, stop acting like u want something u don’t want, a relationship! U wanna be a hoe be a hoe but at least he’s grown man hoe who is honest about it.
This is crazy. Anyone can say anything with no really proof of anything. It seems like some people wanted him and he didn’t want them the same way they wanted him. We were together this past Easter weekend and we laughed at all the fake comments on here. We have been dating since before the thanksgiving holiday and he isn’t anything like what’s being said. He is sweet and honest. He does want to get married he obviously didn’t want to do that with the person who started this mess and she needs to get over it. If you dated him and it didn’t work out get over it. He is not anywhere near gay or bi. For the past 9 months he has been with me and only me so please stop posting that he was with lots of people. I know what he does and when. I am either at his house or he is at mines. He is a good guy and this is a bs thread. Bitter people Move on. Stop trying to ruin a person’s life just cuz it didn’t work out between you
@enough… lol funny he’s been with you for 9 months I was with him durning that time as well. It’s sad honestly but what ever you say I could show you more than enough proof but it’s clearly a waste of time. Glad that he is totally committed to you. These women and myself have no reason to lie I for one am far from bitter. He will expose his hand soon enough. I guess while you were in the kitchen cooking dinner he was upstairs taking nude selfies for me and others. While you were in the shower we were FaceTiming each other for the past year. We spoke every single day. So I guess he played his hand well until he couldn’t keep the lie up any longer. I guess when I couldn’t reach him he was at your house and would lie and say he was sleep. Or that he’s in IKEA or some furniture store buying stuff to decorate his home. No one here is bitter at all best of luck to you guys. We stop communicating for reason that had nothing to do with you.
@enough get at me when you feel the need 863.968.6980 be great!
😂🤣😂🤣 this would be comical if it wasn’t so sad. @enough I said I wasn’t going to post anything else because it is what it is. Girl you got me over here 🤣 Yes people can write anything on here and it not be true. Just like you just wrote he has been with you and only you for last 9 months 😂🤣
@WTF exactly that’s what I’m saying like why people have to lie I want so badly to post messages but I sent the number she can text whenever she feels the need and I’ll send her every dam thing. 😂😂😂
@SMH She probably won’t. He will convince her not to. Plus she wants to believe it’s not true.
@wtf for you to say that ur his friend u sure talk bad about him. U start off with he’s a good dude and u ended in 2011 as friends and that he has a friend in u and he call u but now you saying that he gay/bi and he tried it with u and so got another guy. That don’t sound like a friend. U ladies sound silly and immature. So what he dated u and didn’t want to make u the wife. It happens to a lot of women but they get over it. U probably would go right back if he let u so Stop doggin this man just cuz he likes to have sex and don’t wanna settle down. Who gives a crap? @smh u gave out ur number just so u can try to ruin what he has goin on. That’s crazy. I hope he is reading this stuff so He knows who to keep dealin with and who not to. This is crazy
@amused I never said I was his friend. That was MC (Mara) which I also questioned myself….. I was one of the many he was lying to and sleeping with up till April 2019. I assure you I would never go back to someone who is so immature, irresponsible and reckless. Like MC said ain’t no dick worth dying for. What is sad about this all is the people who continue to support Kamili reckless behavior. This man was evolved with multiple women not using condoms up till the original blog on cheaterland. I bet money he still is. Telling each of them he is only with them. No he didn’t hold a gun to my head. How ever he did gain my trust. With his lies and bullshit. I am not silly or immature. I only was naive and trusted the wrong person. This was definitely a lesson for me and hopefully for anyone reading this. However it so disappointing we live in a day. That people can’t and won’t be honest with what the want. Even more disappointing people supports the disgusting behavior of this narcissistic person. I can’t speak for @SMH but how can she ruin what he has going on if none of this is true. Remember we all are lying 🤥 on this poor man😩 get the f*** out if here you all are definitely entertaining me at this 😂🤣
@WTF I couldn’t have said that better myself! MC threw me all the way off as well. But you live and you learn. Now that he has been put out there he will do right I’m convinced he is being faithful to @ENOUGH she said it herself she knows his every move. So he couldn’t have been with you 🥴 or anyone else for that matter. we’re all lying on this faithful man.
You mad I said what I said. I keep real I am faking for this thread. I have no dog in this about KAM. Hell yeah I am going keep it 100. He is a friend you mad because I put it out there the nigga is soft/ flamboyant manly one min and Rupaul the next. I read what I said.
Enough tell them girl he eating your booty and sucking on your kitty now. You in love. He is a professional at that shit. 😆 KAM
@MC
LMMFAO HELL NO… I can’t I’m dead someone revive me please! The professional yes ma’am. #groceries
Enough please tell Kam he better stop using the Federal Aviation Administration business trips to sleep around with women before somebody reports his ass to his superiors in Atlanta and he looses his damn job.
A female throwing him under bus or believing what she wants to believe that he is Faithful to her will stop someone from sleeping with whoever. I just know how I met him was the same pretenses and I pepped game and kept if friendly. I still know what his mouth do. I am real ass chic no time to be bougie about a nigga. It is so much more dick in the sea.
@enough it seems he got you right we’re he wants you. If you read other women he has several women I was with Kam for about a year and he knows what he he is doing to these women and chic you are the next target. That nigga ain’t getting married don’t want to let me ask you this I bet you he says you my nasty bitch lol gd luck
I don’t kiss anybody’s ass. I call like I see it. Let KAM be great the truth evidently gets exposed if he is doing what the women on this thread claim he is doing to them. A man only is going to do to you what you allow.
https://cheaterland.com/liar-cheater-and-doesnt-use-protection.html
Smh
I just met him. Glad I searched his name. He seems so nice. This is crazy.
Run!
@ newbie you dodge a bullet. I wish this info was out before I met him 🙁
When did you meet him?
I knew he was gay by the photo posted on the article. Y’all thought he was straight?
Whoa! I can’t even ask if this is true because the signs were always there. Everytime I confronted him about another woman he’d always say that she was just a “friend” or “homegirl” that he had known for years. Well he has known me for years too. Our history goes back way too many years for him not to just be direct with me about what he really wanted in life. A wife is definitely not within his plans. This is crazy though and a relief to know that I wasn’t just being insecure in my thoughts and feelings. From the pictures of girls on hotel beds, him acting suspect about the boutique lady in Miami. Always a friend or a homegirl, though. In my head I always thought, ” I’m a good woman waiting on him, being faithful, phone sexing while he was away working. Was he even working? Was he even in the cities that he claimed to be in? After this news, I am having doubts about a lot of things that I was being told. Like, how many other women received the good morning beautiful texts. Or the mid day, how’s your day going beautiful texts. He sure knows how to make you feel special and loved. I remember he was in Myrtle Beach working at the time. I woke up late to a missed call and a link that he sent to my phone. When I opened the link it was the video to Faith Evans’ song Soon As I Get Home. Ok, so I’m excited blushing all of that and when I talked to him I thanked him for it. Maybe I was too much in my feelings about it. Too happy. Hell, I thought it was sweet and coming from “my man” it meant a lot. Well he killed all of that joy because he was was like you act like I never sent you that before. Which he never did so naturally Im thinking well who else is he seeing and did he mean to send that to her instead. Mind blowing! Plus his entire friend list on facebook was majority beautiful, educated women. In hindsight the signs were always there. Constantly being told that another woman in question was just a friend or homegirl. Yet I dealt with it not wanting to ever come off as being that “insecure” “controlling” woman because I loved him. I still do today but as a friend. Not as his version of a friend though. Forgiveness is grand where I stand. I can personally say that I was naive to it all, misled. Things were always there in plain sight even though he preferred to lie. Who knows? Perhaps in his head that’s who we all were to him, nothing more than a friend or homegirl that he could mind fuck and add to his friend list.
#SadButTrue
How long were you guys dating? When did the relationship end?