In case you forgot, dating sucks in Atlanta.
Yes, the “fake it till you make it” mantra even extends into dating. I can’t be the only one tired of the “men will only get away with what you allow” line that completely undermines basic respect and morality while absolving men of their toxic behavior while dating.
If only women had a database for these sort of men where we could warn each other about the derelicts we encounter in this city. Like my blog.
Ladies, meet Terrance. At first sight, he’s sweet. A real charmer. Why wouldn’t he be? Doesn’t everyone send their representative while dating?
Everyone lies. Terrance lied about having a house. Lied about his job. Lied about his bills. Even lied about having a sister. Who does that?
Imagine meeting someone from a Facebook group and thinking you found the one then then suddenly realized he isn’t who he says he is. After an Ike Turner moment, this is exactly what happened with an unsuspecting woman who fell prey to his deceit.
I can’t emphasize enough the importance of a background check when dating these men. Take a look at this:
Not only was he a liar, but he’s dangerous too. Peep how his parole keeps getting extended for stalking and failure to abide by the terms of his sentence. He’s a menace to women and women everywhere should be warned that he exists and to stay far away from him.
Ladies, if he slides into your DMs on Facebook, ignore him. Watch out for him, and men like him, in these Facebook groups. People aren’t who they say they are and you never really know who you are dealing with.
Kudos to the woman who submitted this man for having the wherewithal to conduct a background check. While assault is never a woman’s fault, there are measures we can take to be more proactive in protecting ourselves from demons like Terrance Lewis.
Maybe I should start a background check service for dating to protect women. In the meantime, if you have a man that you would like to warn your sisters about, email me at divorcedwifeatl@gmail.com
In the #MeToo era, it’s important we stick together so we don’t become another hashtag.
I know him. Always in my DMs asking for nudes. Super aggressive
They were together a whole year
Thanks for the post/blog. I just got back into the dating scene and to say it’s a challenge is putting it lightly. We definitely need post like yours and others. Kudos!
Why are women always getting blamed for what men do? They are just NEVER responsible huh?
Let me guess he work for the railroad. He hit a lady so he off work etc… the same lies he told me!! Always have a reason why he needs something. I fell for the nice guy act. Shows his true colors fast!? Be warned!! Creep!!!
A few months ago I fell for it too! Wish I woulda came across this during the time
He dated my friend.. he’s from Mississippi living in Atlanta pretending to be someone he isn’t…all his friends have it going on and he has nothing…. He legit has issues. The woman finally got him locked up after he sent her naked photos to her job! He deserves all of this honestly
Alert this man is a scammer! He will try to figure out any way that he can get money out of you. He drives a nice car, but has nothing in his apartment. He pretends like he just moved to the city and claims that he works for the railroad.
I know this post probably won’t go up but it’s funny you try to make Terrance out to be a bad person when Amiya the scammer who started this bs is the one who needs to be on here. She the one who has been using people like she repairs credit or does business proposals and keep people money she scammed my brother and sister. She failed to pay Terrance for an apartment she knew she couldn’t pay for yet u try to make him out to be the bad person when none of this bs isn’t even true about this man I know him personally been knowing him his entire life. But it’s cool I hope he sues all of you. Y’all have nothing better to do with your lives because Terrance ain’t even worried he is living his life and laughing at y’all because women are still in his inbox trying to be with him so y’all look dumb because this ain’t working lol. And Juanita u r pathetic for even doing this bs because women lie on me all day but someone is going to run up on you and make u answer for these bs blogs
Please contact me. I am Monesha McKenzie and I did not write that comment.
Huh?